Yes, you read that right.
I’m aware that my disbelief in talent may be an unpopular opinion, but it’s a useful one. Let me explain.
Talent is a concept that invites us to forget our agency. It lures us into thinking some people are special and others are not. Some people have this natural gift that allows them to do things, and if that’s not us – why even try?
To clarify, I think talent (to be naturally skilled), is often used to write off someone’s level of ability. By saying someone is talented, you distance yourself from a reality where you could do the same, AND you discredit the work they’ve done to get to their position.
Let’s look at some examples, starting with my own experience. When I started winning consistently at karate I used to hear a lot about how ‘talented’ I was. The reality is different however. I started karate when I was 5. It was 7 years before I won my first gold medal, and a decade before I won with any consistency. What people wrote off as ‘talent’ was actually a decade of hard work manifesting in improved performance.
Similarly, when someone tries a new skill and seems to have an immediate affinity with it, we often call them ‘talented’ at that thing, but I’ve never known that to be the case. Instead, you tend to find that the person has developed the skill(s) required for the new activity in a different way; they’re drawing on transferable skills. For example, someone who always played chess growing up and enjoys doing maths puzzles may find that they are ‘talented’ at coding. In reality, they have already honed and developed the areas of the brain that aid understanding code.
I think talent feels nice to the ego. It’s something innate that we have, it’s ours, no one can argue with it, and when someone like me comes along as says talent is bs, that’s probably triggering. It’s something that made you feel special. I get it.
And I’d be lying if I didn’t say I used to believe in talent, especially when everyone was telling me how talented I was. But here’s the thing: I know without a doubt that I could teach any healthy, fit, female karate-ka to compete at the level I did and win. Consistently. Over a long period of time. And I wouldn’t be able to assert that if I thought I was this talented superstar because talent suggests there is something MORE that you either have or you don’t. It’s just another manifestation of the fixed mindset that holds so many of us back.
When I let go of the myth of talent, I regained my agency in my accomplishments and achievements. I know that it’s down to what I do, not what I’m naturally good at, and that I can develop in whichever ways I want (systemic discrimination notwithstanding).
And in letting go of the myth of talent each of us is capable, within the right environment and context, of developing skill through consistent effort, focus, and innovation, in almost any area.
Lastly, if you were to adopt this belief, studies show that you’re more likely to succeed at the things you try. Why? Because when it gets hard you’ll know that that point is where the learning and growing starts, and you’ll dig in and push on. If you’re holding onto this concept of ‘talent’, you’ll be more likely to use things getting hard as evidence that you’re just not ‘talented’ at this thing and give up.
So who’s with me? Will you throw away the myth of talent? Let me know in the comments!
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Interesting… I don’t necessarily believe in talent and I definitely believe in hard work, determination and consistency. But my brothers have always been “the talented ones” because they have always been naturally good at music. They simply understood music even before they studied it. They both learned how to play instruments just by listening to the different sounds. They are also actors, which took hard work and consistency. But the music stuff could be seen as talent (I think… Maybe…) since they never really needed to study it to know how to play and to sing… 🤔🤔
I suspected music/singing might come up and I’m certainly not an expert, but I imagine that there might be a genetic factor that makes singing easier (e.g. something to do with vocal chords, or the ears idk), which would mean someone might be primed to be ‘good’ at that thing. Definitely worth looking into.
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